Elder Ballard lists three ways mothers can do that; first, is realizing joy comes in moments, second is to not overschedule children, and third, to find time to cultivate talents and interests.. Gag. How cool someone reading my rambling! That being said, my ward will be nice and quiet next Sunday, one of the joys of the YSA wards. Now, I detest it. She only did half the things a good mother would have done. I dont mean to be rude, but I know I will have anxiety over killing it and then I *will* kill it and then I will have to look at its dead body. One of her favorites: Im so bad when daddy comes home, I recommend that you take President Eyrings approach and assume that the women to whom you are speaking are doing their best, but that often their very best means just barely hanging on. Disciples should take this personal holiday to their own homes to celebrate it when and how they choose. I meant an ideal not an idea! She discusses the divinity of motherhood and how every woman can become a mother in the world around her. My best friend (unmarried, childless at 51) has been asked to speak. I would expect him to give a talk like that because he is so utterly black and white in his thinking and he never heard a strict utterance over the pulpit that he did not love. Mother's Day is a special time to say thanks to the women in your life. This is a tradition of man, and sometimes it is just a bad idea. please please please please dont pull us teachers from Primary for pie or talking. Latter-day Saints to Attend Sacrament Meeting Only on Christmas Day Church Newsroom November 10, 2022 Church The First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has. I must speak the loving word, The hard part for me is when I hear talks about angel mothers where I actually know whom they are talking about. #37 Now that you mention it, Uchtdorf is pretty Hallmarky. Father's Day Talk in Sacrament Meeting June 21, 2009. Its hard for those without children, who are likely never to have children, to listen to motherhood talks that don't address their situation. Replies to my comments It would be much easier for me to hear mothers day talks if they were real instead of ideal, though Id prefer a good sermon on Christ, instead. I loved it! It hasnt yet. Because I know the real story so it is distracting from the fake one that they are giving. This talk was named after a phrase from Victor Hugo who gave all her food to her children, not because she is not hungry, but because she is a mother. Elder Holland talks about the central role motherhood plays in the gospel of Jesus Christ and gives many principles of comfort and courage for mothers who may be struggling. So for over a decade, Ive loved Mothers Day, just because I know it wont end with all of us crying. For those who disagreed with my thoughts (above) about our needing ideals to aim at in our lives, I fell upon a quote from C.S. Which also makes me wonder about why we Americans dont recognize International Womens Day. I personally am skeptical of ever looking to people for ideals. Then the clincher, it is only for women to celebrate and they need to be left alone to celebrate it as they demand and see fit. Talk topics could be: - examples in the scriptures (Eve, Ruth, Naomi, Esther, Sarah, Mary, Sariah, etc), - early Saints (Lucy Mack, Emma, Eliza R Snow, Aurelia Rogers, etc), - influence of (teachers, nurses, aunts, grandmas, etc). I have some ideas of speaker topics but I thought I would start a thread for suggestions of topics, scriptures, conference talks, etc that would help make a great Sacrament Meeting that honors Motherhood while also keeping a focus on Christ. Along with activities and programs during the week, Latter-day Saints gather on Sundays for an approximately hour-long "sacrament" meeting, where men, women and younger members offer prayers and give sermons, sing hymns and partake of the sacrament (similar to receiving communion). It demands that the single day of the year that Mother's are celebrated to a holiday that is solely for adult females and no one else. Every week they strive to prepare for that sacred ordinance with a broken heart and a contrite spirit (see 3Nephi 9:20). They are there, you just have to do a little digging. For sacrament meeting, we can give the men a sternly worded warning about the danger of tehpernogriffiez. When her dad found out that there was a whole lottashakin goin on without him, he summarily divorced his adulterous wife and took the children to live with him. You can still give the women the day off. Last year, I did an arrangement of "I Often Go Walking" for the Primary children and our ward choir to perform together. I was reading about the origins of Mothers Day. Im grateful for it. Somehow those who are not mothers are incapable of celebrating motherhood and thus it is painful for them and thus no one should celebrate motherhood as a church. Not until the 1600s did people start associating the holiday with their own actual mothers (Mothering Day in the UK). You might drift over to what has been considered the rebuttal of Mothers Who Know given at the next conference session by Elder Ballard. Mothers, we acknowledge and esteem your faith in every footstep. But as for now no praise deserved but the praze to the heavenly Father. I also choose to focus on the women in the scriptures like #30 has mentioned. His explanation was not to offend any sister. It was part of the talk. I'd had a challenging morning, but somehow, my 3-year-old-daughter was decked out and ready for church on time. (If you want to see an example, search mormon tax exemption on Twitter.) They can eat whatever they want, in fact. I also really like Kristenes suggestion and everything like unto it as EOR suggested. The perfect sacrament meeting talk? I choose to stay away for most MDs and all FD. Even men who are on diets. This ordinance is an essential part of worship and spiritual development. I dont think it would occur to anyone to give a man a plant for Fathers Day *, but its very common to give women plants for Mothers Day. Not all women can become real mothers. I too am irritated by mother-worshipping in MD talks, but at the same time, I think many Mormon women identify so strongly with being a mother and so many have sacrificed just about everything to focus on that specific role, that they really appreciate a little validation, a little boost of confidence that what theyre doing is significant and has meaning. After the explanation, both seemed excited and accepted the challenge willingly. It isn't in every country so I don't know why it has to be in just a few. All Honestly, considering how touchy this subject is (women w/out kids, abusive moms, separated/divorced men who don't want to be, moms who've passed, etc), I'd focus on Womanhood. Uchtdorf, but you have to admit he gets pretty Hallmark(y) sometimes. I hope none of you mind if I quote from this. A small gift for Mothers Day is fine, but if you give chocolate to a diabetic or a piece of pie to someone with gluten intolerance, what have you given? More than at any time in the history of the world, we need mothers who know. And this is all in addition to the everyday problems like getting the bills paid and the laundry done. By On the night before His Crucifixion, Jesus Christ met with His Apostles and instituted the sacrament (see Luke 22:1920). It worked well in my ward, I think. Seriously, no one is going to be pleased. We should not celebrate anything unless it is universally acknowledged around the world. That said, I cant say I recall ever hearing a bad Mothers Day talk. Its never the men. When He instituted the sacrament, Jesus Christ said, This is my body which is given for you: this do in remembrance of me. Since I believe he (the Father) and my Heavenly Mother are probably equals, Id say we know a lot about her as well! But I still think the Dove bars our bishop chooses rock the holiday. Id really love to see the fathers acknowledged on Fathers Day. I think Ill check myself in to a nice bed and breakfast. But I love my mother, and I miss her, so Im hopeful that the experience will be a good one. I have work enough to do, As the son of a mother who was destroyed every Mothers Day, and seeing many similar experiences here, I plan to stick to the Christ-centric meeting next year. If you want to hear about angel mothers and perfect people, remain in the chapel. Alma 56:47-48. I have been given mostly free reign on my message. Thanks for thinking of me, my youngest bishop son! Finally, Elder Holland offers his thanks to mothers around the world. President Hinckley directly addresses mothers in this talk, commending them for the wonderful thing they have done by becoming mothers, but offering insights on their greatest challenge: to be able to answer the question How well have my children done? with happiness. Kristine, thank you again. There have been one or two General Conference talks in the last couple of years that briefly addressed that situation. It seems like awareness and knowing your audience as mentioned before, is half the battle. It will easily demonstrate the weaknesses in the position: The logic is faulty. Below, youll find an excerpt from each talk and a link to the full text. lesson about prayer. Did they not have mothers? Motherhood is more than bearing children, though it is certainly that. And chocolate. Ideals ALL! I could brave baby showers and birth announcements just fine, but Mother's Day cut me to the core. Could someone remind of what the day is for after all? Personally, I like cookies. To be fair, diabetics can eat chocolate. We once had a bishop hand out frozen TV dinners! President Eyringonce said that when he meets somebody for the first time, he assumes that person is struggling mightily with an intractable problem, and cannot see any possible solution. Even though Mothers Day is now a reasonably happy day for me personally, I still find that my mind is focused on how other women in my ward might be experiencing it. Measure your words with that assumption in mind. There was nothing you could do that would ever make you feel like she didnt love you, but she always told you the truth about your behavior and was not afraid to be entirely real with you even when you wanted to lie to yourself. It was a nice meeting. Worst Moms Day talk ever: when we (and most of our friends) were newlyweds, one of our friends (a guy) was asked to give the big glory of motherhood talk. Ugh ugh ugh. Available Now: 2023 Temple Calendar. Please Please Please! Latter-day Saints in a contemporary congregation partake of the sacrament. Have a variety of ages speak on ideas or what they've done to help their mothers and ways they've stayed close to their mothers. We also have free LDS program covers and printable LDS program covers you can print off at home. Their talks often included poems about the immeasurable amount of crap mothers had to deal with. The reminder was given to visit those sisters unable to attend on Mothers Day. There are a number of other conference talks on the subject (righteous traditions, family traditions, etc.). I am aware of a seminary/institute teacher who is apparently of the firm and unshakeable belief that a pile of pizza must be provided each week without fail. My kids are way too distracting. Probably low on the most desired list, but very creative and I will always remember that with a smile. Topical Guide, Assembly for Worship, Index to the Triple Combination, Assemble, Meetings in the Church, Handbook 2, 18, Speaking in Sacrament Meeting? youth.ChurchofJesusChrist.org, Is Sacrament Meeting a Top-of-the-Mountain Experience for You? 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